It’s a dating experiment that brings real-world encounters and personal connections back into dating. If you meet someone and feel a spark, you can leave them with your calling card, which includes a number and a link to your personal profile. You can also share your profile link with your personal network of friends, so they can pass it along to potential matches.

Members receive calling cards containing their first name, a Google number, and a QR code linking to their personal profile. If you meet someone at the store, bar, or even on the sidewalk, you can give them a card and let them decide whether to follow up with a text or call — no pressure, no swiping, no algorithms.

Alternatively, members can share their personal profile link with their trusted network, encouraging friends to pass it along to potential matches.

Our calling cards are designed to be simple, elegant, and memorable. They’re ultra-thick with rounded corners and a refined texture that feels premium in your hand. Inspired by the tradition of Victorian-era calling cards, they create a sense of intrigue while leaving a lasting impression. Handing someone a card is effortless, but it speaks volumes — it signals confidence, intention, and authenticity. And remember: if it’s not for them, they aren’t for you.

Nope. It’s old-school: real life first, technology second. The recipient doesn’t need to pay to view your profile.

Adults. Busy, accomplished adults who are tired of the noise of dating apps and want real-world connections. It is for is for those who want dating to feel intentional, elevated, and worthy of the energy they bring to every other part of their lives.

We recommend using a Google Voice number (or another dedicated number) and dedicated email for your communications. It keeps your personal info private while still making it easy for new connections to reach you. You can manage calls and texts, set boundaries, and even turn it off if you need a break. It’s one more way to stay in control.

We believe in common sense and respectful interactions. Using a Google number preserves your privacy and adds an extra layer of security if you make a bad judgment call.

That’s the beauty of RWM — what if you could let someone know you’re interested with no obligation? Sharing your card is simply an invitation. They may take it or not, and either outcome is okay.

If this isn’t for them, then they are not for you. Every “no” is just making space for the right “yes.” 

You’re always in control. You are in no way obligated to respond to messages. Report behavior that doesn’t align with our standards, please. Your time is precious, don’t bother engaging.

We get it — once a link exists, it can be shared. But the spirit of this experiment is built on trust, respect, and real-world moments. If you share your card, it’s because someone made an impression in person. Use your best judgement. At RWM, we value manners above all. The world could use a little more of that.

No. Your information belongs to you. We don’t sell or share personal data with advertisers — ever.

Right now, the experiment is personal and invite-only. Please join our waitlist if interested in becoming a member soon.

Yes. You’re encouraged to share your profile link with trusted people. You’ve spent a lifetime building your personal network — this is the time to leverage it. How wide you cast the net is up to you: keep it close, or share it on social media if you’re confident the right people will see it. Above all, trust your instincts — and protect your privacy by using your Google number.

Yes. If you’d like to step back for a while, you can hide or lock your profile with a click. You decide when and how you want to be visible.

No. Nor does the person viewing your profile.

Since your profile is visible on the web, don’t share anything you wouldn’t feel comfortable mentioning in the first ten minutes of a conversation. Your first name, age, and general location are musts. This is also someone’s opportunity to gauge for mutual dealbreakers, so it’s smart to note whether you’re religious, have children, or hold particular political views.

Most importantly, let your personality come through. Share a few real details about yourself and what you’re looking for. Don’t compromise or aim for mass appeal—just be you.